Mother Gaslighting You

My step-son is such a nerd and I'm getting really worried. He is in college or he is playing his computer games, thats literally all he does and enjoys in life. I'm starting hating it cuz it doesn't give me any privacy - he is always home when I'm home. I wish he was hanging out with girls instead of being a weird kid sitting home and I'm ending up gaslighting him till he wants me.